Actor Jermelle Simon's role as Bernard "Benny" Upshaw Jr. in "The Upshaws" proved transformative, both professionally and personally. Portraying a character who eventually comes out as a gay man encouraged Simon to embrace his own identity.
Simon noted that his character's growth over five seasons, from repairing family relationships and becoming a father to navigating dating and entrepreneurship as an openly gay man, mirrored his personal journey. Simon publicly came out on social media on National Coming Out Day in 2024 and married digital storyteller Obio Jones in October.
Originally from Florence, South Carolina, Simon pursued acting despite early challenges. After college, he worked various jobs, including medical assistant and mailman, to support his children before moving to Los Angeles in 2013. He developed his craft through community and union theater, eventually landing an audition for "Fences" before securing his role in "The Upshaws."
Simon described his audition for "The Upshaws" as a fearful experience due to its connection to his own closeted struggles. He divorced in 2018, two years before getting the role, and credits the character with helping him confront his fears and embrace his true self, which significantly enhanced his professional and personal freedom.
Simon expressed satisfaction with his character Bernard's conclusion in the series, which sees him happily partnered and a fulfilled father. The final days of filming were poignant, marked by the passing of his grandmother, an experience that reinforced the cast's familial bond.
Simon's husband, Obio Jones, appeared on "The Upshaws" in two instances, first as a friend and then as his character's boyfriend. Simon shared insights into the unique experience of working alongside his partner.
The couple chose an intimate courthouse wedding, prioritizing their privacy over a public ceremony. This decision reflected their desire to keep personal moments sacred despite their public profiles.
Looking ahead, Simon seeks impactful roles that promote visibility and personal change. He aims to transition into film, specifically single-camera dramas, to diversify his acting portfolio beyond comedic roles and pursue projects that challenge him creatively.