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Eli Sutherland describes forming a triad with Rhea and Leo after meeting at a queer book club

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"We just clicked. It felt like the most natural thing in the world."

Eli Sutherland describes meeting Rhea and Leo at a queer book club in Melbourne. The three began dating after attending a hockey game together, marking the start of a six-month relationship built on open communication and mutual respect.

They have discussed boundaries including labels and couple privilege, ensuring that each partner feels equally valued within the dynamic. Since becoming more open about their relationship with friends, the response has been overwhelmingly supportive.

The trio’s journey highlights the importance of intentionality in polyamorous relationships, from the initial spark at a community event to the ongoing negotiation of emotional logistics.