In 2020, an individual reported experiencing memory loss following three drinks during a second date, leading to a suspicion of having been drugged. The individual recalled a half-empty bottle of wine that had been offered but not consumed by the other party.
Upon this recollection, the individual contacted law enforcement. Police responded to the individual's residence, collected forensic samples, and requested details of the person involved. The individual declined to provide the name and address of the person.
Police informed the individual that the investigation could not proceed without the suspect's information, categorizing the refusal to disclose details as withholding information. However, law enforcement stated they would freeze urine samples and retain swabs for potential future use.
Five years later, in 2023, the individual decided to revisit the incident. This decision was influenced by a conversation with a friend who had experienced a similar event and by rewatching the television series "I May Destroy You." The individual subsequently contacted the police to inquire about the case's records and the status of the stored samples. Police indicated potential challenges in progressing a case after such a significant time lapse.
During this period, the individual located the name of the person involved and found a profile photo depicting them with a baby. The current status of the case remains unresolved.
Support Services:
- In the UK, Rape Crisis offers support on 0808 500 2222 (England and Wales), 0808 801 0302 (Scotland), or 0800 0246 991 (Northern Ireland).
- In the US, RAINN provides support on 800-656-4673.
- In Australia, 1800Respect is available at 1800 737 732.
- International helplines are listed at ibiblio.org/rcip/internl.html