Robert Cosby Jr., Son of Reality Star Mary Cosby, Dies at 23 in Utah

Robert Cosby Jr. Dies in Utah

Robert Cosby Jr., the 23-year-old son of 'The Real Housewives of Salt Lake City' personality Mary Cosby, has died in Utah.

Salt Lake City Police reported that officers responded to a possible overdose call on Monday, where they found Robert Cosby Jr. deceased. The cause of death is currently under investigation by the medical examiner.

Mother's Statement

Mary Cosby confirmed her son's death on Instagram Wednesday.

He was 'called home to the Lord,' and she expressed comfort that he is at peace.

She conveyed gratitude for prayers and trust in the Lord 'to carry us through this time of sorrow'.

Background and Past Struggles

Past seasons of 'The Real Housewives of Salt Lake City' featured discussions regarding Robert Cosby Jr.'s experiences with mental health and substance abuse. Earlier this month, he was released from jail after pleading guilty in December to assault and violating a protective order. These charges, totaling over a dozen, originated from incidents between September and November concerning violations of orders to avoid contact with his wife, Alexiana Smokoff.

During the show's fifth season, Mary Cosby discussed concerns regarding her son's behavior, which led to her understanding of his drug addiction. An on-camera conversation between Mary Cosby and her son revealed Robert Cosby Jr. began experimenting with drugs at age 16. He stated he had used substances such as Xanax, Adderall, cocaine, and acid.

He expressed feeling 'like a stain' and that 'this world wasn't for me'.

Mary Cosby informed viewers that her son subsequently entered rehabilitation. During the season five reunion, she stated their intention was:

"If we can help just one person then we'll just tell our truth."

Her co-stars commended her approach to the situation and her efforts to get her son help. The network also provided resources for individuals facing substance abuse issues.

During a season six reunion episode last month, she discussed her son's incarceration, indicating a preference for his safety in jail over concerns about his potential activities outside.

"I know he’s somewhere where he’s not using."

She added, "At some point, I have to step back so that he can learn and he can make his own decisions, and unfortunately, he’s learning the hard way. But I’m OK with it."

Reactions from Cast and Producer

• Cast member Whitney Rose posted a broken heart emoji on her Instagram Story after the news of his death.
• Another cast member, Lisa Barlow, posted prayers for the Cosby family. Barlow's message included, "May you feel God's love and comfort... May you feel love surround you - today and always."
• Andy Cohen, the show's executive producer, addressed the news on Threads, describing it as 'devastatingly sad'. Cohen stated, "This is every parent's worst nightmare. My heart is broken for Mary, and I am sending all my love to her and Robert Sr."

Support Resources

Resources for individuals and families dealing with substance abuse issues are available through the Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration's 24/7 National Helpline at 1-800-662-HELP (4357).